Use zmq-anyio #3158

Job	Run time
Test Lint	1m 5s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	6m 30s
check_release	1m 48s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.10)	5m 48s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	4m 43s
link_check	3m 42s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	8m 31s
Make SDist	23s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	6m 35s
test_docs	44s
Test Minimum Versions	2m 46s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	4m 47s
Test Prereleases	2m 28s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.10)	4m 17s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	4m 15s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	5m 16s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	8m 56s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	4m 56s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	9m 20s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	5m 1s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.9)	8m 50s
build (windows-latest, pypy-3.10)	8m 30s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	5m 32s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	6m 36s
build (macos-latest, 3.11)	4m 53s
build (macos-latest, 3.12)	7m 23s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	4m 20s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.9)	5m 21s
build (macos-latest, pypy-3.10)	4m 55s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 24s
coverage	0s
	2h 30m 35s

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