howto set different behaviour for menu and menuitems

[ilovesushi]

menu1(item1,item2,item3)
menu2(item1,item2)
etc
i use encoder to ms.next ms.previous ..all work fine with menuitems but
how to skip ms.select when i scroll menus because each menu its a separate lcd screen with its menuitems

i need to scroll menus without choosing them, call on choosen menu callback to draw its own screen
and only after menu select . i should fall to menuitems select unselect and on select callback methods
ps: in other words only for menues i need to call their on select functions without selecting them