update ci and deps

Author: luweizheng

.github/workflows/python.yaml

@@ -75,7 +75,7 @@ jobs:
     strategy:
       fail-fast: false
       matrix:
-        # os: ["ubuntu-latest", "macos-14", "windows-latest"]
+        os: ["ubuntu-latest", "macos-14", "windows-latest"]
         # python-version: ["3.9", "3.10", "3.11", "3.12"]
         module: ["xorbits"]
         exclude: