Move to step by step based db access

Author: MadLittleMods

ONBOARDING.md

@@ -189,22 +189,16 @@ For Goland:
  * Then you can right-click on any test file or test case and "Run <test name>".
 
 
-
 ### Access database for homeserver after Complement test runs
 
+If you're curious what the database looks like after you run some tests, here are some steps to get you going in Synapse:
 
-For Synapse:
-
-```
-# You can use `docker ps -f name=complement_` to just filter to the Complement containers
-$ docker ps
-$ docker exec -it complement_1_hs_with_application_service.hs1_2 /bin/bash
-
-$ apt-get update && apt-get install -y sqlite3
-
-$ sqlite3
-> .open /conf/homeserver.db
-```
+ 1. In your test comment out `defer deployment.Destroy(t)` and replace with `defer time.Sleep(2 * time.Hour)` to keep the homeserver running after the tests complete
+ 1. Start the Complement tests
+ 1. Find the name of the container, `docker ps -f name=complement_` (this will filter for just the Compelement related Docker containers)
+ 1. Access the container replacing the name with what you found in the previous step: `docker exec -it complement_1_hs_with_application_service.hs1_2 /bin/bash`
+ 1. Install sqlite (database driver), `apt-get update && apt-get install -y sqlite3`
+ 1. Then run `sqlite3` and open the database `.open /conf/homeserver.db` (this db path comes from the Synapse homeserver.yaml)
 
 
 ### What do I need to know if I'm coming from sytest?