Fix non-strict module update with extra weights (#3214)

Co-authored-by: Michelle DiMarco <m_dimarco@apple.com>

Author: gmin7

python/mlx/nn/layers/base.py

@@ -340,6 +340,13 @@ def apply(dst, parameters):
                         raise ValueError(f'Module does not have parameter named "{k}".')
             elif isinstance(parameters, list):
                 for i in range(len(parameters)):
+                    if i >= len(dst):
+                        if strict:
+                            raise ValueError(
+                                f"List index {i} is out of bounds for "
+                                f"destination of length {len(dst)}."
+                            )
+                        continue
                     current_value = dst[i]
                     new_value = parameters[i]
                     if isinstance(current_value, mx.array):

python/tests/test_nn.py

@@ -170,6 +170,23 @@ def test_load_from_weights(self):
         # Empty weights is ok if strict is false
         m.load_weights([], strict=False)
 
+        # Extra weights for non-existent layers are filtered when strict
+        # is false. Flat keys like "extra.weight" are silently dropped by
+        # Module.update, but nested indexed keys like "layers.1.weight"
+        # cause an IndexError in tree_unflatten/update without filtering.
+        m = nn.Sequential(nn.Linear(2, 2))
+        m.load_weights(
+            [
+                ("layers.0.weight", mx.ones((2, 2))),
+                ("layers.0.bias", mx.ones((2,))),
+                ("layers.1.weight", mx.ones((2, 2))),
+                ("layers.1.bias", mx.ones((2,))),
+            ],
+            strict=False,
+        )
+        self.assertTrue(mx.array_equal(m.layers[0].weight, mx.ones((2, 2))))
+        self.assertEqual(len(m.layers), 1)
+
     def test_module_state(self):
         m = nn.Linear(10, 1)
         m.state["hello"] = "world"