fix(devtools-connect): have the driver skip ping during connect

Author: nbbeeken

packages/devtools-connect/src/connect.ts

@@ -562,6 +562,8 @@ async function connectMongoClientImpl({
       return dns.lookup(hostname, { verbatim: false, ...options }, callback);
     };
 
+    (mongoClientOptions as any).__skipPingOnConnect = true;
+
     delete (mongoClientOptions as any).useSystemCA; // can be removed once no product uses this anymore
     delete mongoClientOptions.productDocsLink;
     delete mongoClientOptions.productName;