chore: Update boxednode to 3.0.0, so we can support Node.js 24

We are also upgrading the Node.js version we use for the driver
nightly tests to 24.11.1 (latest LTS version at the moment of
this commit)

Author: kmruiz

.evergreen-nightly-driver.yml

@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@
 parameters:
   - key: mongodb_driver_version_override
     value: nightly
-
+  - key: node_js_version
+    value: 24.11.1
 include:
-  - filename: .evergreen.yml
+  - filename: .evergreen.yml