fix(gateway): prevent budget race condition with row locking (#836)

## Description
Budget validation reads the user's current spend without locking the
row. Under concurrent requests, multiple requests can all pass the
budget check before any update the spend, creating a TOCTOU race
condition that allows users to exceed their budget.

This PR adds `SELECT ... FOR UPDATE` row locking in
`validate_user_budget()` to serialize concurrent budget checks for the
same user, and applies atomic SQL spend updates.

## PR Type
- 🐛 Bug Fix

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Author: njbrake

src/any_llm/gateway/budget.py

@@ -65,7 +65,7 @@ async def validate_user_budget(db: Session, user_id: str) -> User:
         HTTPException: If user is blocked, doesn't exist, or exceeded budget
 
     """
-    user = db.query(User).filter(User.user_id == user_id).first()
+    user = db.query(User).filter(User.user_id == user_id).with_for_update().first()
 
     if not user:
         raise HTTPException(

tests/gateway/test_budget_race_condition.py

@@ -0,0 +1,62 @@
+"""Tests for budget enforcement with row locking."""
+
+from typing import Any
+
+import pytest
+
+from any_llm.gateway.budget import validate_user_budget
+from any_llm.gateway.db.models import Budget, User
+
+
+@pytest.mark.asyncio
+async def test_validate_user_budget_uses_for_update(
+    test_db: Any,
+) -> None:
+    """Test that validate_user_budget queries with FOR UPDATE locking.
+
+    We verify this indirectly by confirming the budget check works correctly
+    for a user at their budget limit.
+    """
+    budget = Budget(
+        budget_id="race-budget",
+        max_budget=10.0,
+    )
+    test_db.add(budget)
+
+    user = User(
+        user_id="race-user",
+        spend=9.99,
+        budget_id="race-budget",
+    )
+    test_db.add(user)
+    test_db.commit()
+
+    # Should pass -- spend is under budget
+    result = await validate_user_budget(test_db, "race-user")
+    assert result.user_id == "race-user"
+
+
+@pytest.mark.asyncio
+async def test_budget_check_rejects_at_limit(
+    test_db: Any,
+) -> None:
+    """Test that a user at or over budget limit is rejected."""
+    from fastapi import HTTPException
+
+    budget = Budget(
+        budget_id="full-budget",
+        max_budget=10.0,
+    )
+    test_db.add(budget)
+
+    user = User(
+        user_id="full-user",
+        spend=10.0,
+        budget_id="full-budget",
+    )
+    test_db.add(user)
+    test_db.commit()
+
+    with pytest.raises(HTTPException) as exc_info:
+        await validate_user_budget(test_db, "full-user")
+    assert exc_info.value.status_code == 403