Change default for shutdown on panic setting

Also complete the change from 'DBMS panic' to 'server panic', which is a more accurate term.

Author: nick-giles-neo

modules/ROOT/pages/configuration/configuration-settings.adoc

@@ -5080,11 +5080,11 @@ a|<<config_dbms.max_databases,`dbms.max_databases`>>
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 |===
 |Description
-a|If there is a Database Management System Panic (an irrecoverable error) should the neo4j process shut down or continue running. Following a DbMS panic it is likely that a significant amount of functionality will be lost. Recovering full functionality will require a Neo4j restart. Default is `false` except for Neo4j Enterprise Edition deployments running on Kubernetes where it is `true`.
+a|If there is a server panic (an irrecoverable error) should the neo4j process shut down or continue running. Following a server panic it is likely that a significant amount of functionality will be lost. Recovering full functionality will require the Neo4j process to restart.
 |Valid values
 a|A boolean.
 |Default value
-m|false
+m|true
 |===