tools: add an option to generate lighter archives #218

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 35s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	28m 19s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	23m 59s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	55m 19s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	27m 21s
	2h 16m 33s

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