deps: update nghttp3 to 1.13.1 #1786

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 36s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	1h 52m 41s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	1h 31m 14s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	1h 38m 25s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	1h 25m 13s
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