Make o1js and Mina build work on MacOS

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maintainer and author: @bleepbloopsify

Problem: Macos native builds on o1js are extremely brittle.

Solution:
Build on macos natively to make sure it works

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MinaProtocol/mina#17849

added a pull request to mina to bump some documentation numbers, and rocksdb, which was blocking opam install on MacOS

there is discussion around rocksdb verification that I need to look at, as well as hard fork timing.

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o1-labs/opam-repository#13

added a pull request to pin async_ssl to a good version

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Slack

Slack unveil of a working compilation and build. Next steps is to formalize documentation.

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Going to call this in review since there are a couple pieces that need to be looked at, documentation I will break out into a separate piece

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MinaProtocol/mina#17864

Added a pull request to mina to move the async_ssl o1labs fork into usage