Update postgres driver in r2dbc tests (#13566)

Author: laurit

instrumentation/r2dbc-1.0/testing/build.gradle.kts

@@ -13,5 +13,5 @@ dependencies {
 
   runtimeOnly("dev.miku:r2dbc-mysql:0.8.2.RELEASE")
   runtimeOnly("org.mariadb:r2dbc-mariadb:1.1.3")
-  runtimeOnly("org.postgresql:r2dbc-postgresql:1.0.1.RELEASE")
+  runtimeOnly("org.postgresql:r2dbc-postgresql:1.0.7.RELEASE")
 }

instrumentation/r2dbc-1.0/testing/src/main/java/io/opentelemetry/instrumentation/r2dbc/v1_0/AbstractR2dbcStatementTest.java

@@ -17,6 +17,7 @@
 import static io.opentelemetry.semconv.incubating.DbIncubatingAttributes.DB_STATEMENT;
 import static io.opentelemetry.semconv.incubating.DbIncubatingAttributes.DB_SYSTEM;
 import static io.opentelemetry.semconv.incubating.DbIncubatingAttributes.DB_USER;
+import static io.r2dbc.spi.ConnectionFactoryOptions.CONNECT_TIMEOUT;
 import static io.r2dbc.spi.ConnectionFactoryOptions.DATABASE;
 import static io.r2dbc.spi.ConnectionFactoryOptions.DRIVER;
 import static io.r2dbc.spi.ConnectionFactoryOptions.HOST;
@@ -141,6 +142,7 @@ void testQueries(Parameter parameter) {
                 .option(USER, USER_DB)
                 .option(PASSWORD, PW_DB)
                 .option(DATABASE, DB)
+                .option(CONNECT_TIMEOUT, Duration.ofSeconds(30))
                 .build());
 
     getTesting()