Sync suppression instrumentationName, library instrumentationName, and module name

[trask]

Mostly this is done by #5692, but would be great if we could add some kind of verification to ensure that they are in sync and stay in sync.

[trask]

Most of the verification is done now in #12955, but there are still some TODOs in check-javaagent-instrumentation-suppression-keys.sh that need follow-ups.