Feat/nodejs/add auto instrumentations (#1724)

* Add same instrumentations as provided in opentelemetry/auto-instrumentations-node meta package

* Remove non-generic instrumentations from default instrumentations list

* Fix instantiation of undici instrumentation

* Revert "Remove non-generic instrumentations from default instrumentations list"

This reverts commit 763ef0c.

* Remove instrumentation for packages that should not be used in lambda

Author: wpessers