[BUG]

### OpenIM Server Version

open-im-server采用的是release-v3.8.3

### Operating System and CPU Architecture

Linux (AMD)

### Deployment Method

Source Code Deployment

### Bug Description and Steps to Reproduce

采用集群源码部署的方式，open-im-server采用的是release-v3.8.3，但是会经常遇到rpc-msg的10280的进程挂掉 导致没法发送短信，请问这个有什么优化方案么？

### Screenshots Link

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