update meson/meson_python/ninja and wheel patches

Author: cosminbasca

graalpython/lib-graalpython/patches/meson/sdist/meson-1.0.0.patch renamed to graalpython/lib-graalpython/patches/meson/whl/meson-1.0.0.patch

@@ -0,0 +1,14 @@
+diff --git a/mesonpy/__init__.py b/mesonpy/__init__.py
+index 3ea1325..47ba9ce 100644
+--- a/mesonpy/__init__.py
++++ b/mesonpy/__init__.py
+@@ -109,7 +109,8 @@ _STYLES = _init_colors()  # holds the color values, should be _COLORS or _NO_COL
+ 
+ _EXTENSION_SUFFIXES = frozenset(importlib.machinery.EXTENSION_SUFFIXES)
+ _EXTENSION_SUFFIX_REGEX = re.compile(r'^\.(?:(?P<abi>[^.]+)\.)?(?:so|pyd|dll)$')
+-assert all(re.match(_EXTENSION_SUFFIX_REGEX, x) for x in _EXTENSION_SUFFIXES)
++if sys.implementation.name != 'graalpy':
++    assert all(re.match(_EXTENSION_SUFFIX_REGEX, x) for x in _EXTENSION_SUFFIXES)
+ 
+ 
+ def _showwarning(