Backport PR #61519: BUILD: Bump Cython to 3.1 #45111

Job	Run time
Test Conda Forge Recipe - Python 3.10	5m 53s
Test Conda Forge Recipe - Python 3.11	5m 49s
Install Extras - performance	4m 3s
Install Extras - feather	3m 59s
Install Extras - parquet	4m 17s
Install Extras - test	3m 59s
Install Extras - sql-other	4m 14s
Install Extras - pyarrow	3m 59s
Install Extras - compression	4m 4s
Install Extras - html	4m 5s
Install Extras - aws	4m 7s
Install Extras - all	4m 52s
Install Extras - gcp	4m 6s
Install Extras - hdf5	4m 23s
Install Extras - output-formatting	3m 58s
Install Extras - xml	4m 12s
Install Extras - postgresql	4m 23s
Install Extras - consortium-standard	4m 10s
Install Extras - spss	4m 3s
Install Extras - computation	4m 5s
Install Extras - plot	3m 58s
Install Extras - clipboard	4m 13s
Install Extras - mysql	3m 58s
Install Extras - fss	4m 10s
Install Extras - excel	4m 21s
	1h 47m 21s

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