xml_doc.write(file) and xml_doc.write(file_name) use differrent new line formats in windows

# Bug report

### Bug description:

```python
xml_doc.write(xml_path, encoding="utf-8") # \r\n
```

```python
with open(xml_path, "wb") as f:
    xml_doc.write(f, encoding="utf-8") # \n
```

Also pls add option to write newline to the end of file


### CPython versions tested on:

3.12

### Operating systems tested on:

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