Update more replace ops passes to new interface

Summary:
Updated
- ReplaceSelectWithViewOpPass
- ReplaceMMWithAddMMPass
- ReplacePadWithCatPass
- ReplaceTrivialConvWithLinear
- ReplaceConvWithIm2RowAndLinear
- ReplaceTorchQuantizedEmbeddingWithCadenceQuantizedEmbedding

to use the new more efficient RemoveOrReplacePassInterface, which also correctly sets the modified bit.

Reviewed By: hsharma35

Differential Revision: D87821616

Author: Andrew Grebenisan