[Executorch] Make apple take accelerate path for blas

For some reason fbobjc_exported_preprocessor_flags does not seems to work. Thus
taking 'select' route which seems to work.

Differential Revision: [D64499608](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D64499608/)

[ghstack-poisoned]

Author: kimishpatel

kernels/optimized/lib_defs.bzl

@@ -130,6 +130,18 @@ def define_libs():
                 ":linux-x86_64": [
                     "-DET_BUILD_WITH_BLAS",
                 ] if not runtime.is_oss else [],
+                "ovr_config//os:iphoneos": [
+                    "-DET_BUILD_WITH_BLAS",
+                    "-DET_BUILD_FOR_APPLE",
+                ] if not runtime.is_oss else [],
+                "ovr_config//os:macos-arm64": [
+                    "-DET_BUILD_WITH_BLAS",
+                    "-DET_BUILD_FOR_APPLE",
+                ] if not runtime.is_oss else [],
+                "ovr_config//os:macos-x86_64": [
+                    "-DET_BUILD_WITH_BLAS",
+                    "-DET_BUILD_FOR_APPLE",
+                ] if not runtime.is_oss else [],
                 "DEFAULT": [],
             }),
             fbandroid_platform_preprocessor_flags = [