Update to new version with new 16x4 kleidi kernels (#6101)

Summary:
* This xnnpack has kleidi v0.3.0
* Doesn't yet enable Kleidi yet by default `-DEXECUTORCH_XNNPACK_ENABLE_KLEIDI=OFF`
* Minor fix for model load stat with warmup which was reporting 0.0

Pull Request resolved: #6101

Reviewed By: mergennachin

Differential Revision: D64220150

Pulled By: digantdesai

fbshipit-source-id: 98c8c4e079ee09dfd869970ec1abb9dccae29deb

Author: digantdesai

backends/xnnpack/third-party/XNNPACK

@@ -59,9 +59,16 @@ struct ET_EXPERIMENTAL Stats {
     aggregate_sampling_timer_start_timestamp = 0;
   }
 
-  void reset() {
-    model_load_start_ms = 0;
-    model_load_end_ms = 0;
+  void reset(bool all_stats = false) {
+    // Not resetting model_load_start_ms and model_load_end_ms because reset is
+    // typically called after warmup and before running the actual run.
+    // However, we don't load the model again during the actual run after
+    // warmup. So, we don't want to reset these timestamps unless we are
+    // resetting everything.
+    if (all_stats) {
+      model_load_start_ms = 0;
+      model_load_end_ms = 0;
+    }
     inference_start_ms = 0;
     prompt_eval_end_ms = 0;
     first_token_ms = 0;