updated apple framework defaults

Author: hinriksnaer

run_ios_build.sh

@@ -12,4 +12,4 @@ pip install -e .
 # MPS-only requirements:
 ./backends/apple/mps/install_requirements.sh
 
-./scripts/build_apple_frameworks.sh --Release --coreml --mps --xnnpack --custom --optimized --quantized --torchao
+./scripts/build_apple_frameworks.sh --Release

tools/cmake/preset/apple_common.cmake

@@ -25,3 +25,4 @@ set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_EXTENSION_TENSOR ON)
 set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_KERNELS_CUSTOM ON)
 set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_KERNELS_OPTIMIZED ON)
 set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_KERNELS_QUANTIZED ON)
+set_overridable_option(EXECUTORCH_BUILD_KERNELS_TORCHAO ON)