Update on "[ET-VK][AOT] Define pass application order"

## Changes

The goal of this diff is to enforce a specific structure in how graph transform passes are applied during `vulkan_preprocess`. This will help make sure that certain passes are applied at the correct time, and that pre-requisite conditions for passes are fulfilled before they are applied.

See the comments in `vulkan_preprocess.py` for more details.

Differential Revision: [D65234843](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D65234843/)

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Author: SS-JIA

backends/vulkan/_passes/insert_prepack_nodes.py

@@ -73,9 +73,9 @@ def prepack_not_required(node: torch.fx.Node) -> bool:
             )
             # This pass assumes that the SpecPropPass() has already been applied
             assert "spec" in node.meta
-            assert node.meta["spec"].const
             # Validate that the original node is marked as a constant. Constant tensors
             # do not participate in memory planning.
+            assert node.meta["spec"].const
             prepack_node.meta["val"] = node.meta["val"]
             prepack_node.meta["spec"] = deepcopy(node.meta["spec"])
             # Set the mem_obj_id to -1 to indicate that this node requires a dedicated