Update build_native.sh

Update to C++11 ABI for AOTI, similar to ET

Author: mikekgfb

torchchat/utils/scripts/build_native.sh

@@ -93,7 +93,7 @@ popd
 if [[ "$TARGET" == "et" ]]; then
     cmake -S . -B ./cmake-out -DCMAKE_PREFIX_PATH=`python3 -c 'import torch;print(torch.utils.cmake_prefix_path)'` -DLINK_TORCHAO_OPS="${LINK_TORCHAO_OPS}" -DET_USE_ADAPTIVE_THREADS=ON -DCMAKE_CXX_FLAGS="-D_GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI=1" -G Ninja
 else
-    cmake -S . -B ./cmake-out -DCMAKE_PREFIX_PATH=`python3 -c 'import torch;print(torch.utils.cmake_prefix_path)'` -DLINK_TORCHAO_OPS="${LINK_TORCHAO_OPS}" -DCMAKE_CXX_FLAGS="-D_GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI=0" -G Ninja
+    cmake -S . -B ./cmake-out -DCMAKE_PREFIX_PATH=`python3 -c 'import torch;print(torch.utils.cmake_prefix_path)'` -DLINK_TORCHAO_OPS="${LINK_TORCHAO_OPS}" -DCMAKE_CXX_FLAGS="-D_GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI=1" -G Ninja
 fi
 cmake --build ./cmake-out --target "${TARGET}"_run