Default queue type (DQT): fall back to node-wide default when virtual host has no metadata set (backport #12109) (backport #12112)

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when virtual host does not have any metadata.

With this change, an x-queue-type header will be injected into optional queue arguments
and returned as part of definitions and the HTTP API in virtually all cases.

This also relaxes the assert_list/2 assertion a bit: it
no longer requires the size of an actually returned list element
to be exactly equal to the size of the expected one.

Sometimes it makes perfect sense to not assert on
every single key but only a subset, and with this
change, it now will be possible.

Individual tests may choose to assert on all
keys by listing them explicitly.

References #11541 #11457 #11528

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #12109 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #12112 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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[michaelklishin]

This needs the HTTP API suite to be updated with the changes from main first.