[Intel GPU] Avoid target_link_libraries twice for torch_xpu_ops which will potentially cause multiple definition symbol linker error. (pytorch#139024)

[Intel GPU] Avoid target_link_libraries twice for torch_xpu_ops which will potentially cause multiple definition symbol linker error.
Pull Request resolved: pytorch#139024
Approved by: https://github.com/EikanWang, https://github.com/fengyuan14, https://github.com/jansel

Author: etaf

caffe2/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -1084,12 +1084,12 @@ if(USE_XPU)
     target_link_libraries(torch_xpu PRIVATE torch_xpu_ops)
     if(MSVC)
       # Windows
-      target_link_libraries(torch_xpu PRIVATE
-      "-WHOLEARCHIVE:\"$<TARGET_FILE:torch_xpu_ops>\"")
+      target_link_options(torch_xpu PRIVATE
+      "-WHOLEARCHIVE:$<TARGET_FILE:torch_xpu_ops>")
     else()
       # Linux
-      target_link_libraries(torch_xpu PRIVATE
-        "-Wl,--whole-archive,\"$<TARGET_FILE:torch_xpu_ops>\" -Wl,--no-whole-archive")
+      target_link_options(torch_xpu PRIVATE
+          "-Wl,--whole-archive,$<TARGET_FILE:torch_xpu_ops>,--no-whole-archive")
     endif()
 
     # Set cached ${ATen_XPU_INCLUDE_DIRS} to torch