Remove bridge infrastructure and device_memory_resource (#2324)

## Summary

- Delete `device_memory_resource.hpp` and
`device_memory_resource_view.hpp`
- Remove pointer-based `per_device_resource` APIs and bridge helpers
- Simplify `cccl_adaptors.hpp` (remove DMR bridge code, retain wrapper
for deletion in a follow-up)
- Rewrite test mock resources (`mock_resource.hpp`,
`device_check_resource_adaptor.hpp`) to use CCCL concepts directly
- Update `callback_memory_resource`, aligned, arena, and
failure_callback tests

Closes #2296
Part of #2011

Author: bdice

cpp/benchmarks/utilities/simulated_memory_resource.hpp

@@ -6,7 +6,6 @@
 
 #include <rmm/aligned.hpp>
 #include <rmm/detail/error.hpp>
-#include <rmm/detail/export.hpp>
 #include <rmm/detail/format.hpp>
 
 #include <cuda/memory_resource>
@@ -112,8 +111,8 @@ class simulated_memory_resource final {
   bool operator==(simulated_memory_resource const&) const noexcept { return true; }
   bool operator!=(simulated_memory_resource const&) const noexcept { return false; }
 
-  RMM_CONSTEXPR_FRIEND void get_property(simulated_memory_resource const&,
-                                         cuda::mr::device_accessible) noexcept
+  constexpr friend void get_property(simulated_memory_resource const&,
+                                     cuda::mr::device_accessible) noexcept
   {
   }