`refetchQuery` triggers `queryThunk` without partaking in `runningQueries` deduplication

[phryneas]

This was kinda reported in #2802, but actually has nothing to do with lazy queries, so that issue went on a very wrong direction.

[markerikson]

#4650 may be basically the same thing, hopefully fixed in #4651 .

[markerikson]

Out in https://github.com/reduxjs/redux-toolkit/releases/tag/v2.2.8