Auto merge of #111029 - Nilstrieb:when-the-errs-are-too-big, r=petrochenkov

Shrink `SelectionError` a lot

`SelectionError` used to be 80 bytes (on 64 bit). That's quite big. Especially because the selection cache contained `Result<_, SelectionError>. The Ok type is only 32 bytes, so the 80 bytes significantly inflate the size of the cache.

Most variants of the `SelectionError` seem to be hard errors, only `Unimplemented` shows up in practice (for cranelift-codegen, it occupies 23.4% of all cache entries). We can just box away the biggest variant, `OutputTypeParameterMismatch`, to get the size down to 16 bytes, well within the size of the Ok type inside the cache.

Author: bors