Bump examples to React Native 0.81 (#3676)

This PR bumps example apps (except macos) to React Native 0.81.

Tested on example apps.

Author: m-bert

.yarn/patches/@react-native-community-slider-npm-5.0.0-32e63cc751.patch

@@ -0,0 +1,42 @@
+diff --git a/android/src/main/jni/CMakeLists.txt b/android/src/main/jni/CMakeLists.txt
+index f720c8e8808c01eab3446b0a819f48aa355077de..0484a6409c2c92ab6971a9b8d607e800a54dea9c 100644
+--- a/android/src/main/jni/CMakeLists.txt
++++ b/android/src/main/jni/CMakeLists.txt
+@@ -9,15 +9,6 @@ set(LIB_COMMON_DIR ${LIB_ANDROID_DIR}/../common/cpp)
+ set(LIB_ANDROID_GENERATED_JNI_DIR ${LIB_ANDROID_DIR}/build/generated/source/codegen/jni)
+ set(LIB_ANDROID_GENERATED_COMPONENTS_DIR ${LIB_ANDROID_GENERATED_JNI_DIR}/react/renderer/components/${LIB_LITERAL})
+ 
+-add_compile_options(
+-  -fexceptions
+-  -frtti
+-  -std=c++20
+-  -Wall
+-  -Wpedantic
+-  -Wno-gnu-zero-variadic-macro-arguments
+-)
+-
+ file(GLOB LIB_CUSTOM_SRCS CONFIGURE_DEPENDS *.cpp ${LIB_COMMON_DIR}/react/renderer/components/${LIB_LITERAL}/*.cpp)
+ file(GLOB LIB_CODEGEN_SRCS CONFIGURE_DEPENDS ${LIB_ANDROID_GENERATED_JNI_DIR}/*.cpp ${LIB_ANDROID_GENERATED_COMPONENTS_DIR}/*.cpp)
+ 
+@@ -70,6 +61,21 @@ else()
+   )
+ endif()
+ 
++if(ReactAndroid_VERSION_MINOR GREATER_EQUAL 80)
++  target_compile_reactnative_options(${LIB_TARGET_NAME} PUBLIC)
++else()
++  target_compile_options(
++    ${LIB_TARGET_NAME}
++    PRIVATE
++    -fexceptions
++    -frtti
++    -std=c++20
++    -Wall
++    -Wpedantic
++    -Wno-gnu-zero-variadic-macro-arguments
++  )
++endif()
++
+ target_compile_options(
+   ${LIB_TARGET_NAME}
+   PRIVATE