fix: update gen_rpc to fix gen_rpc_dispatcher issues (#1537)

Issues:

* Single gen_rpc_dispatcher that can be a bottleneck if the connecting takes some time
* Many calls can land on the dispatcher but the node might be gone already. If we don't validate the node it might keep trying to connect until it times out instead of quickly giving up due to not being an actively connected node.

Author: edgurgel

mix.exs

@@ -4,7 +4,7 @@ defmodule Realtime.MixProject do
   def project do
     [
       app: :realtime,
-      version: "2.51.0",
+      version: "2.51.1",
       elixir: "~> 1.17.3",
       elixirc_paths: elixirc_paths(Mix.env()),
       start_permanent: Mix.env() == :prod,
@@ -90,7 +90,7 @@ defmodule Realtime.MixProject do
       {:opentelemetry_phoenix, "~> 2.0"},
       {:opentelemetry_cowboy, "~> 1.0"},
       {:opentelemetry_ecto, "~> 1.2"},
-      {:gen_rpc, git: "https://github.com/supabase/gen_rpc.git", ref: "5aea098b300a0a6ad13533e030230132cbe9ca2c"},
+      {:gen_rpc, git: "https://github.com/supabase/gen_rpc.git", ref: "901aada9adb307ff89a8be197a5d384e69dd57d6"},
       {:mimic, "~> 1.0", only: :test},
       {:floki, ">= 0.30.0", only: :test},
       {:mint_web_socket, "~> 1.0", only: :test},

mix.lock

@@ -29,7 +29,7 @@
   "file_system": {:hex, :file_system, "1.1.0", "08d232062284546c6c34426997dd7ef6ec9f8bbd090eb91780283c9016840e8f", [:mix], [], "hexpm", "bfcf81244f416871f2a2e15c1b515287faa5db9c6bcf290222206d120b3d43f6"},
   "finch": {:hex, :finch, "0.19.0", "c644641491ea854fc5c1bbaef36bfc764e3f08e7185e1f084e35e0672241b76d", [:mix], [{:mime, "~> 1.0 or ~> 2.0", [hex: :mime, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}, {:mint, "~> 1.6.2 or ~> 1.7", [hex: :mint, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}, {:nimble_options, "~> 0.4 or ~> 1.0", [hex: :nimble_options, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}, {:nimble_pool, "~> 1.1", [hex: :nimble_pool, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}, {:telemetry, "~> 0.4 or ~> 1.0", [hex: :telemetry, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}], "hexpm", "fc5324ce209125d1e2fa0fcd2634601c52a787aff1cd33ee833664a5af4ea2b6"},
   "floki": {:hex, :floki, "0.37.0", "b83e0280bbc6372f2a403b2848013650b16640cd2470aea6701f0632223d719e", [:mix], [], "hexpm", "516a0c15a69f78c47dc8e0b9b3724b29608aa6619379f91b1ffa47109b5d0dd3"},
-  "gen_rpc": {:git, "https://github.com/supabase/gen_rpc.git", "5aea098b300a0a6ad13533e030230132cbe9ca2c", [ref: "5aea098b300a0a6ad13533e030230132cbe9ca2c"]},
+  "gen_rpc": {:git, "https://github.com/supabase/gen_rpc.git", "901aada9adb307ff89a8be197a5d384e69dd57d6", [ref: "901aada9adb307ff89a8be197a5d384e69dd57d6"]},
   "gettext": {:hex, :gettext, "0.26.2", "5978aa7b21fada6deabf1f6341ddba50bc69c999e812211903b169799208f2a8", [:mix], [{:expo, "~> 0.5.1 or ~> 1.0", [hex: :expo, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}], "hexpm", "aa978504bcf76511efdc22d580ba08e2279caab1066b76bb9aa81c4a1e0a32a5"},
   "gproc": {:hex, :gproc, "0.9.1", "f1df0364423539cf0b80e8201c8b1839e229e5f9b3ccb944c5834626998f5b8c", [:rebar3], [], "hexpm", "905088e32e72127ed9466f0bac0d8e65704ca5e73ee5a62cb073c3117916d507"},
   "grpcbox": {:hex, :grpcbox, "0.17.1", "6e040ab3ef16fe699ffb513b0ef8e2e896da7b18931a1ef817143037c454bcce", [:rebar3], [{:acceptor_pool, "~> 1.0.0", [hex: :acceptor_pool, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}, {:chatterbox, "~> 0.15.1", [hex: :ts_chatterbox, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}, {:ctx, "~> 0.6.0", [hex: :ctx, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}, {:gproc, "~> 0.9.1", [hex: :gproc, repo: "hexpm", optional: false]}], "hexpm", "4a3b5d7111daabc569dc9cbd9b202a3237d81c80bf97212fbc676832cb0ceb17"},