[Options] Update swift driver flags

Sync swift flags and also update the README for the new include path
required to build makeOptions.

Author: cachemeifyoucan

README.md

@@ -119,7 +119,7 @@ $ apt-get install libncurses-dev
 be found, e.g.:
 
 ```
-$ swift build -Xcc -I/path/to/build/Ninja-Release/swift-.../include -Xcc -I/path/to/build/Ninja-Release/llvm-.../include -Xcc -I/path/to/source/llvm-project/llvm/include --product makeOptions
+$ swift build -Xcc -I/path/to/build/Ninja-Release/swift-.../include -Xcc -I/path/to/build/Ninja-Release/llvm-.../include -Xcc -I/path/to/source/swift/include -Xcc -I/path/to/source/llvm-project/llvm/include --product makeOptions
 ```
 
 Then, run `makeOptions` and redirect the output to overwrite `Options.swift`: