Fix misleading Lifetime diagnostics for inout parameters

Correctly diagnose this as:
"invalid use of inout dependence on the same inout parameter

    @_lifetime(a: &a)
    func f_inout_useless(a: inout MutableRawSpan) {}

Correctly diagnose this as:
"lifetime-dependent parameter must be 'inout'":

    @_lifetime(a: borrow a)
    func f_inout_useless(a: borrowing MutableRawSpan) {}

(cherry picked from commit 05fa82b)

Author: atrick

include/swift/AST/DiagnosticsSema.def

@@ -8244,7 +8244,7 @@ ERROR(lifetime_dependence_cannot_use_default_escapable_consuming, none,
       "invalid lifetime dependence on an Escapable value with %0 ownership",
       (StringRef))
 ERROR(lifetime_dependence_cannot_use_parsed_borrow_inout, none,
-      "invalid use of borrow dependence on the same inout parameter",
+      "invalid use of inout dependence on the same inout parameter",
       ())
 ERROR(lifetime_dependence_duplicate_target, none,
       "invalid duplicate target lifetime dependencies on function", ())

lib/AST/LifetimeDependence.cpp

@@ -917,6 +917,7 @@ class LifetimeDependenceChecker {
       }
       unsigned sourceIndex = paramDeclAndIndex->second;
       if (lifetimeKind == LifetimeDependenceKind::Scope
+          && paramDeclAndIndex->first->isInOut()
           && sourceIndex == targetIndex) {
         diagnose(source.getLoc(),
                  diag::lifetime_dependence_cannot_use_parsed_borrow_inout);

test/Sema/lifetime_depend_infer.swift

@@ -565,7 +565,7 @@ struct NonEscapableMutableSelf: ~Escapable {
   @_lifetime(self: copy self) // OK
   mutating func mutatingMethodNoParamCopy() {}
 
-  @_lifetime(self: &self) // expected-error{{invalid use of borrow dependence on the same inout parameter}}
+  @_lifetime(self: &self) // expected-error{{invalid use of inout dependence on the same inout parameter}}
   mutating func mutatingMethodNoParamBorrow() {}
 
   mutating func mutatingMethodOneParam(_: NE) {} // expected-error{{a mutating method with a ~Escapable 'self' requires '@_lifetime(self: ...)'}}