Set ABI3 compat

Author: tconley1428

.github/workflows/ci.yml

@@ -35,6 +35,8 @@ jobs:
       - uses: astral-sh/setup-uv@v5
       - run: uv tool install poethepoet
       - run: uv sync --all-extras
+        env:
+          PYO3_USE_ABI3_FORWARD_COMPATIBILITY: 1
       - run: poe bridge-lint
         if: ${{ matrix.clippyLinter }}
       - run: poe lint