Update tanstack react query and fix type errors (#6707)

Affected by TanStack/query#8958

Closes trpc/trpc#6730

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **Refactor**
- Streamlined internal query filtering methods by simplifying filter
type parameters, improving usability and clarity.

- **Chores**
- Upgraded the core query library dependency across the project and
examples to version `^5.74.7`, enhancing performance, stability, and
access to the latest features.
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package.json

@@ -10,7 +10,7 @@
   "dependencies": {
     "@hookform/error-message": "^2.0.1",
     "@hookform/resolvers": "^3.9.1",
-    "@tanstack/react-query": "^5.67.1",
+    "@tanstack/react-query": "^5.74.7",
     "@trpc/client": "npm:@trpc/client",
     "@trpc/next": "npm:@trpc/next",
     "@trpc/react-query": "npm:@trpc/react-query",