fix(react-query + tanstack-react-query): bump tanstack packages and peer dependencies (#6809)

Bumps `@tanstack/react-query` which has breaking changes

## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **Chores**
- Updated dependencies across multiple projects to use the latest
versions of `@tanstack/react-query`, `@tanstack/react-query-devtools`,
and related packages.
- **Tests**
- Improved test reliability by normalizing timestamp fields in
dehydrated query state comparisons.

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **Chores**
- Updated dependencies across multiple projects to the latest versions
of `@tanstack/react-query`, `@tanstack/react-query-devtools`, and
related packages.
- **Tests**
- Enhanced test stability by normalizing timestamp fields in dehydrated
query state comparisons.
- Adjusted query behavior in tests to include initial data and disabled
state for improved reliability.
- **Refactor**
- Simplified query hook type signatures by removing redundant type
parameters.
- Clarified mutation handler return types to explicitly indicate no
meaningful return value.
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Co-authored-by: kodiakhq[bot] <49736102+kodiakhq[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>

Author: KATT

package.json

@@ -41,7 +41,7 @@
   },
   "dependencies": {
     "@prisma/client": "^6.7.0",
-    "@tanstack/react-query": "^5.74.7",
+    "@tanstack/react-query": "^5.80.3",
     "@trpc/client": "npm:@trpc/client",
     "@trpc/next": "npm:@trpc/next",
     "@trpc/react-query": "npm:@trpc/react-query",
@@ -58,7 +58,7 @@
   },
   "devDependencies": {
     "@playwright/test": "^1.50.1",
-    "@tanstack/react-query-devtools": "^5.74.7",
+    "@tanstack/react-query-devtools": "^5.80.3",
     "@types/node": "^22.13.5",
     "@types/react": "^19.1.0",
     "@types/ws": "^8.2.0",