chore: update renovate.json (#4357)

- don't try to upgrade arrow/parquet except when datafusion updates
- don't try to update ubuntu container image (since we purposefully pin
to 20.04 for glibc 2.31)

Signed-off-by: Will Manning <[email protected]>

Author: lwwmanning

renovate.json

@@ -25,6 +25,19 @@
     "chore"
   ],
   "packageRules": [
+    {
+      "matchPackageNames": [
+        "arrow{/,}**",
+        "parquet{/,}**"
+      ],
+      "enabled": false
+    },
+    {
+      "matchPackageNames": [
+        "ubuntu"
+      ],
+      "enabled": false
+    },
     {
       "matchUpdateTypes": [
         "major",
@@ -35,8 +48,7 @@
       "matchPackageNames": [
         "arrow{/,}**",
         "parquet{/,}**",
-        "datafusion{/,}**",
-        "pyo3{/,}**"
+        "datafusion{/,}**"
       ]
     },
     {