Add an option to disable child_process patching

[viceice]

We don't want that our compiled binary behaves as node, so we like to have a buildin method to disable the child_process patching which is solving it for our needs.

We currently use a pnpm patch to achive this, but it needs to be adapted manually for each new pkg version

[robertsLando]

I think this should work with an env var, would you like to submit a PR? Remember to document it then

[viceice]

sure, but that env var needs to be compiled into the code, i can't ensure it at runtime. 🤔

[robertsLando]

@viceice What do you mean? If you want to "bake" the env in your exe Just set the env in your entrypoint and you are done

[viceice]

ok, will try it with a local patch bevore submitting a PR. 🤗