Get wasm bindgen working on desktop

[ealmloff]

This PR adds support for a fork of wasm bindgen, web sys and js sys. It moves the virtual dom to a separate thread from the event loop. This lets us share a lot more code between desktop and web including the logic for:

• events
• mounted data (web_sys::Element)
• eval

Breaking changes

• Many of the web-sys types we export are now web-sys-x types which use wasm-bindgen-x for desktop compatibility
• The functions to create a window take closures for the new virtual dom and config constructors instead of passing them directly. This may be possible to remove in the future
• Some hooks like the wry event handler hooks now require a Send bound. This breaks a couple of examples

Status of wasm-bindgen-x

Where we still aren't compatible with wasm-bindgen:

• Low level wasm access like memory()
• Macrotask timing for code that relies on the order of rust code running with respect to the finalization registry (eval is one case where we used to rely on this)
• Unstable apis in wasm bindgen like wasm_bindgen::convert

Publishing:
An initial version is published here which works for dioxus' use cases without a patch. For patching it may be easier to rely on the git tag instead as cargo doesn't let you patch to the same source without a registry alias.

The current published version of web-sys-x has only a limited number of features because of the crates.io limit of 300 features per crate. I have reached out to the crates.io team to see if we can remove that limit to publish the full version

TODO

• Move the virtual doms to a new thread
• Get wasm bindgen working on that new thread
• Fix event conversion for desktop-specific events
• Get it working with multiple webviews
• Create shims for all of the main thread-only functionality we previously exposed
• Integrate into the CLI to either auto patch wasm-bindgen or recommend patching wasm-bindgen when we detect it
• Fix android
• Documentation

Partially addresses #4142 since as_web_event now works on desktop and mobile

[ealmloff]

This was the existing behavior we tested for in dioxus desktop

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CI is running out of storage with the new crates this PR adds. Running locally on linux gnu, the same tests pass