Align wheels build logic with internal CI #615

Job	Run time
build_linux (3.9)	2m 59s
build_linux (3.13)	2m 34s
build_windows (3.9)	8m 45s
build_windows (3.10)	8m 36s
build_windows (3.11)	7m 47s
build_linux (3.11)	2m 36s
build_windows (3.13)	7m 10s
build_windows (3.12)	6m 56s
build_linux (3.12)	2m 49s
build_linux (3.10)	2m 41s
test_linux (3.9, false, ubuntu-latest)	1m 31s
test_linux (3.13, false, ubuntu-latest)	1m 12s
test_linux (3.10, false, ubuntu-latest)	1m 31s
test_linux (3.11, false, ubuntu-latest)	1m 17s
test_linux (3.12, false, ubuntu-latest)	1m 41s
test_windows (3.10, false, windows-latest)	3m 14s
test_windows (3.12, false, windows-latest)	3m 13s
test_windows (3.13, false, windows-latest)	3m 12s
test_windows (3.9, false, windows-latest)	3m 21s
test_windows (3.11, false, windows-latest)	3m 18s
	1h 16m 23s

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