Use CollectionUsageThreshold, add cooldown

[SirYwell]

Overview

Fixes #3366

Description

We are mostly interested in memory consumption directly after a GC cycle, as this indicates whether the server is struggling. To avoid spamming the logs too much, let's only print the warning every 30 seconds.

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