refactor: abstract collaset code with kusionstack/kube-xset

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 77.59259% with 121 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 46.01%. Comparing base (7e58740) to head (99f7547).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
pkg/controllers/collaset/pod_updater.go	69.88%	34 Missing and 19 partials ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/decoration_adapter.go	63.41%	20 Missing and 10 partials ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/collaset_controller.go	92.69%	10 Missing and 3 partials ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/utils/pod.go	0.00%	10 Missing ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/legacy/pvc_control.go	0.00%	9 Missing ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/lifecycle_adapter.go	80.00%	6 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
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+ Coverage   38.67%   46.01%   +7.34%     
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  Files         128      123       -5     
  Lines        9479     7656    -1823     
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- Hits         3666     3523     -143     
+ Misses       5479     3812    -1667     
+ Partials      334      321      -13     

Flag	Coverage Δ
unittests	46.01% <77.59%> (+7.34%)	⬆️

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[zoumo]

LGTM

[zoumo]

LGTM