Merge models without pytorch (using safetensors)

[MaartenGr]

What does this PR do?

Fixes #2326

Allows the use of merge_models with either safetensors or pytorch. It chooses the backend automatically but defaults to PyTorch if it is installed.

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[MaartenGr]

Connection errors with the sklearn datasets it seems. I'll wait a bit and restart the workflow.