Distributed unit tests, newer transformers and trainer fixes

[bigximik]

✨ Description

Introduces skipping for distributed checkpoint tests when running on a single GPU.
The mamba2_hybrid and discrete_mamba2_hybrid conversion tests are marked as broken.
Additionally, the trainer setup now correctly sets the proper stage to model.

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• 🐛 Bug fix (non-breaking change that addresses a specific issue)
• 🚀 New feature (non-breaking change that adds functionality)
• ⚠️ Breaking change (a change that could affect existing functionality)
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• 📦 Dependency bump (updates dependencies, including Dockerfile or package changes)
• 📝 Documentation change (updates documentation, including new content or typo fixes)
• 🔧 Infrastructure/Build change (affects build process, CI/CD, or dependencies)