update python and pypy versions, and all the dependency versions

[lucascompython]

Closes #9779
Tested all fastapi benchmarks:

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Verification Summary
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| fastapi
|       db            : PASS
|       json          : PASS
|       query         : PASS
|       update        : PASS
|       fortune       : PASS
|       plaintext     : PASS
| fastapi-gunicorn-orjson
|       db            : PASS
|       json          : PASS
|       query         : PASS
|       update        : PASS
| fastapi-gunicorn-orm
|       db            : PASS
|       query         : PASS
|       update        : PASS
|       fortune       : PASS
| fastapi-hypercorn
|       db            : PASS
|       json          : PASS
|       query         : PASS
|       update        : PASS
|       fortune       : PASS
|       plaintext     : PASS
| fastapi-hypercorn-orjson
|       db            : PASS
|       json          : PASS
|       query         : PASS
|       update        : PASS
| fastapi-socketify-asgi
|       json          : PASS
|       plaintext     : PASS
| fastapi-socketify-asgi-pypy
|       json          : PASS
|       plaintext     : PASS
| fastapi-uvicorn
|       db            : PASS
|       json          : PASS
|       query         : PASS
|       update        : PASS
|       fortune       : PASS
|       plaintext     : PASS
| fastapi-uvicorn-orjson
|       db            : PASS
|       json          : PASS
|       query         : PASS
|       update        : PASS
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[msmith-techempower]

I approved after merging something in another tab, so I didn't catch the merge conflicts. Annoyingly, I can't unreview and the last CICD run passed... please resolve the merge conflicts and we'll get it in.

[lucascompython]

No problem.
Done!