feat: expose closeOnSelect on React Aria Menu

[sfc-gh-alisowski]

Closes #8208

I noticed the hooks supports this but the component doesn't expose the type. It currently works cause of how the props are passed through.

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

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[snowystinger]

Thanks for the PR!

It looks like in React Spectrum, we exposed it on the MenuTrigger https://react-spectrum.adobe.com/react-spectrum/Menu.html#menu

I think we'll want to discuss aggregate places to put this behaviour so it isn't required on every MenuItem and you aren't as likely to end up with differences within the same menu accidentally.

Maybe on Menu and MenuSection instead would be better. Will bring up with the team.

[sfc-gh-alisowski]

In all the cases in our codebase the prop wouldn't really make sense in an aggregate place. We could work around that with that probably but would be nice if it were just exposed on the option

[snowystinger]

We had a chance to talk about this today. We want to support this in Menu, MenuSection, and MenuItem.
We'd also like to rename the prop for the React Aria Components from closeOnSelect to shouldCloseOnSelect to match DatePicker
Thank you

[LFDanLu]

just one small comment, but otherwise looks good to me

[LFDanLu]

IMO I feel like this jsdoc default and the same ones in Menu is a bit misleading. Keeping this option as undefined vs explicitly providing true will result in different behaviors, especially if we are in the multi select case