fix: :active selector in tailwindcss-react-aria-components

[reidbarber]

Closes #5970

Fixes the :active selector being broken on non-RAC component when tailwindcss-react-aria-components is used

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
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• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

📝 Test Instructions:

Before fix: https://codesandbox.io/p/devbox/c4kwyl
After fix: https://codesandbox.io/p/devbox/before-fix-forked-zh9t83

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