fix(useFetchye): forceInitialFetch

[Sam2303]

Description

After the publish of 1.7.0 DyBev found an issue with the forceInitialFetch and it wasn't working as expected.
What I have done is debugged this and adding more conditions around the force fetch, I added comments in the code to explain whats being done and why.
added a condition to the isLoading function to make the isLoading be true on first render when the forceInitialFetch is passed in
added the new option to the list to be ignored when generating the hash key

Motivation and Context

bugfix

How Has This Been Tested?

unit regression test.
locally packed and ran in a local project

Types of Changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Documentation (adding or updating documentation)
• Dependency update

Checklist:

• My change requires a change to the documentation and I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• My changes are in sync with the code style of this project.
• There aren't any other open Pull Requests for the same issue/update.
• These changes should be applied to a maintenance branch.
• I have added the Apache 2.0 license header to any new files created.

What is the Impact to Developers Using Fetchye?

actually be able to use the forceIntialFetch option and it work as intended