Set ARROW_BOOST_USE_SHARED to OFF

`ARROW_BOOST_USE_SHARED` is restored to `OFF`, which according to Windows doc should help with the debug build now.

Retore value of `ARROW_BUILD_BENCHMARKS`, though noting it is set to `OFF` in GLib MSVC workflow.

Author: alinaliBQ

.github/workflows/cpp_windows.yml

@@ -38,6 +38,8 @@ jobs:
     runs-on: ${{ inputs.os }}
     timeout-minutes: 120
     env:
+      ARROW_BOOST_USE_SHARED: OFF
+      ARROW_BUILD_BENCHMARKS: ON
       ARROW_BUILD_SHARED: ON
       ARROW_BUILD_STATIC: ON
       ARROW_BUILD_TESTS: ON